Hey everyone thanks so much.  I seriously considered that however, the cultures they drew on Sunday were negative and his symptoms all pointed to a viral infection.  Typically they cause the low grade fevers which is why I think our magic number is different than some (though I know this isn't always the case).  At our old hospital (he was dx in NY) the magic number was 100.4.  Either way I watched him like a hawk all night and we made it through.  His body fought it off b/c he was fine all night and has been great today, more active and playing w/ not even a low grade temp.  Also I wasn't overly worried before b/c he was still eating and drinking more than ever.  I was just irritated b/c we are strict followers of the rules and fever = at least an ER visit if not more.  But our rule here is that if the ANC is ok and cultures have been done (which his were) than we can stay home unless they pop positive.  So I basically just wanted someone to reassure me that if got a temp we didn't have to A) drive the 2 hours back to the clinic after we had just left or B) uproot everyone in the middle of the night for an unnecessary trip to the local ER.  His doc is typically awesome.  We butt heads at different times and have since day 1 b/c we both feel that we know what is best.  He had learned his lesson for awhile after quiet a few times when he blew me off and it turned out I was right.  After that he did as I asked for awhile, but it's been awhile and I think he has forgotten lol.  Either way he won this battle.  But if he had stopped eating, drinking etc I would have had him back to the ER w/ or w/o a fever.  Because no matter what he thinks, I DO know what's best for my kid!   Either way thanks for the support.  I think I just needed to blow off some steam.  It is rare I have problems there but when they happen they really get under my skin.  I'm freaking out now b/c his nurse practitioner since we've dealt w/ since we got here is switching to being a floor chemo nurse so we are getting a new NP.  If Nancy wasn't so great I wouldn't be sweating it but she knows my psychosis lol, knows how to calm me down, gets back to me asap, takes the time to talk to me and explain things I don't understand, and even gave me her home number for emergencies (which I've only used once, but knowing she trusted me w/ it and cared that much meant a lot)  I'm glad she'll be staying in the hospital but sad that we are getting someone else.