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Kurt   6 posts since
Nov 20, 2009
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Nov 20, 2009 11:14 PM

Dealing with AML (acute myeloid leukemia) as a teenager: What is it it like and how to cope?

Ok so I'm kind of new to this and am not sure whether I am posting stuff in the right discussion board

but I was wondering if there are any other teenagers like me who have been diagnosed this year with

AML. I'm 19 years old and was diagnosed with AML on the 9th November 2009. Would be great to hear

from other teenagers who are going through the same phase! I'm so intrugued and interested about this

that I would like to hear other teenagers opinions and thoughts on AML! I feel that hearing or speaking to someone

else that is a teenager who has AML will help me better understand the position I am in because right now at

this time I'm so frustrated with this and I know other teenagers will understand where I'm coming from

 

Thanks a lot!

 

Kurt

mamawarrior   947 posts since
Apr 3, 2009

Hi kurt, while i am not a teenager, i am a mama to a son that was diagnosed with aml at age 18. It is a very rough road, my heart goes out to you. My son does not come on these forums, he is a college student, living life after having it on hold for quite a long time. AML is generally an adult leukemia, you are kind of thrown into a world of your own, very few your age understand. But there are a few young ones on the AML forum.

If you look down at the LIVING WITH forum, click on that and then click on living with acute myelogenous leukemia. You may want to copy and paste your post there. I think you would get a better response.

I am sorry that you are going through this and wish you the best.

mamawarrior   947 posts since
Apr 3, 2009

I sure do know what your mum is going through, and i am glad you have her to help you through this. You will need help, it is a difficult journey.

Since they changed the site around, it is a little more difficult to navigate but if you click on this link it may help you.

http://community.lls.org/main-threads.jspa

 

Then click on  the Living with forum (under Blood Cancer Discussion Boards) and to the right you will see "subcommunity's" Click on acute myelogenous leukemia. You will get responses there and alot of information. I 'll check in on you there.

choccrackles   64 posts since
Apr 5, 2009

Hi Kurt

 

I'm a Mum too like Mamawarrior ... my son had AML at 13 followed by BMT and was in remission for 5 years, recently relapsing at 18 ... 19 now and had two more transplants... he is in remission now and doing just fantastic. It has been a roller coaster and a tough battle. I've found he has done better in his head space now he is older, more focussed and kicking butt. He is on facebook, he dont do the cancer talk stuff ... but if you ask I'm sure he will give you the opinion from his point of view. His name is Hamish and if you facebook Hamish and Llewelyn you'll get to him.

 

Good luck with your journey ... you might want to send your Mum here, we do a lot of support !!

 

Milton Mermikides is another younger patient I send links for ... but he is in his 30's ... post transplant from ALL.  He has a great site and there is a chat link there where heaps of younger guys hang out ... so you could easily connect there with others. His site is miltcentral.

 

SO ... we'll be watching for your posts so send updates when you are up to it ... hang in there tough because you can do it ... kick butt, stay active above all else and try and keep your stomach working ... that will minimise your hospital stays once you start to feel better.

 

Take care and hugz

 

Sandra

(Mum to Ham)

mamawarrior   947 posts since
Apr 3, 2009

Hey kurt, just thinking of you.

Seems to me, if i am right, your blood counts are crashing and hitting rock bottom. For some, this is the worst time. Just hang in there, stay safe, get through this and pop in when you have a chance.

tgerak   66 posts since
Jul 8, 2009

Hi Kurt,

 

I'm sorry you're dealing with this so young.  I'm here because my 81 year old mother was recently diagnosed, but also went through it with my neighbor's nephew.  He was diagnosed April '08 when he was 16.  Went through several consolidation chemos and then a BMT, where his brother was the donor.  Just saw him this weekend and he is the poster child of good health.

 

Just wanted to let you know that there are teens out there who have beat this thing, and you CAN do it.

 

You are in my prayers,

 

Tricia

mamawarrior   947 posts since
Apr 3, 2009

Glad to hear from you kurt. Stay safe and let us know when your next round starts. Will you have a bmb soon?

mamawarrior   947 posts since
Apr 3, 2009

Hey kurt, i am so glad to hear from you, and so glad to hear....remission.

It is a rough road, isn't it? The 3rd round was the worst for my son, ended up in icu because of infection. Keeps you on your toes.

There were no sibling matches for my son either, so he had to have a double umbilical cord after no matches were found in the registry. Two because of him being 20 and a big boy. His cords were from baby girls, so i am confident they will find you something somewhere.

You take care, keep us posted, and stay on your toes.

They don't call this a rollercoaster ride through hell for nothing.

pamd   1,347 posts since
Apr 3, 2009

Hey, Kurt, it's good to hear from you!

 

I'm not a teenager, far from it, but I had a successful BMT in July '08, with no complications afterward. I, too, had no sibling match, had to get a good match through the registry. So far, so good----my life is totally back to normal, so I'm hoping for some positive transplant mojo for you, too! Keep us posted on your progress. I'm so glad you are doing well, though!

 

Pam

Tex   3,909 posts since
Apr 3, 2009

"Remission" is a beautiful word, isn't it?  I'm glad yo got there.

 

My first thought when you mentioned the leak with your Hickman was whether you'd had any chemo leakage.  Thank goodness that didn't happen and thanks for letting us know.

 

Are you actually on track for transplant or have they just done some preliminary scouting for donors in case that becomes necessary?  Either way, it's good to know you have some backup isn't it?

 

Thanks for the update.  Keep 'em coming.

 

Blessings

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