Karol, sweetie, never even heard of it. Can you hold your nose and just drink it down without adding a sweetner??? I have never been any good at the natural really good for you stuff, so
I'm no help whatsoever. But, I'm learning. We'll all get through these really tough times ahead together. So not looking forward to the holidays.
Take good care of yourself darlin' and feel better!!!!!!!
Kgirl
Hi Karol,
I've got friends who swear by stevia, but I'm with you, is it just another chemical or not. I have another friend who prefers agave nectar http://www.allaboutagave.com/ as a sweetener. I've not tried either sorry I'm not of more help.
"Firsts" are definitely difficult after the loss of a loved you, I've been there too. I'm hear to listen and help anyway I can, just let me know.
Hugs and blessings,
Jane
Oh yummmmmmy.....apple cider vinegar! Mixed with a little blackstrap molasses and slurp a couple of spoonsful on down! Seriously - I kinda liked the stuff. Course I like sour. (I'm just so sweet, I have to take in sour foods just to keep in balance! LOL) Don't know why I got away from it other than I kept forgetting to get some more. Stevia and agave are also good sweeteners and stevia seems to just now be coming into general supermarkets. Used to be able to get it only at the health food stores. Don't have to use much and yes, they are natural. So is honey which is excellent natural antibiotic. Did you know it never spoils? Bacteria can't grow in it. It may crystalize but it's still good.
When I feel that tickle in my nose or throat like I may be trying to come down with something, I break out the zinc+C lozenges (brand name Cold-eeze but there are store brands too). Usually stops "whatever it is" dead in its tracks. Jane reminded me of the tip of gargling warm salt water a couple times a day as well as swabbing out the nostrils with salt water too. Bacteria doesn't like saline. (Kept me away from the buggies that the g'kids and hubs kept trying to give me the last few weeks).
Brain drained...tired tonite....but maybe that means sleep!
Hugs
Sharon
Hi Karol,
Forgive me for asking but I didn't know you lost a loved one how long ago was it? My husband died 20 years ago from mylofibrosis there was nothing they could do for him back then. I had 3 little kids to raise without him it was very difficult. I really understand how hard it is to go through the grieving. I use agave necter I didn't like the taste of stevia. It's in a plastic bottle and looks like honey taste great too. i go in for my pet/cat scan a week from thursday. I hope I'm in remission. I'm really scared I just pray I'm ok. I will let all of you know what the results are a soon as I find out. God bless to all of you.
Terri
Jane,
These are not the firsts for me but actually the second round... last year everything happened so fast that I went through it all in a blur.... I don't think I really even started to grieve until sometime in February....It was a year ago on October 25th that John died... then Nov 7th is our anniv and then Thanks giving, then Dec 12 is John's b-day then we celebrated Haunakah and then Christmas and then Jan 5th is my b-day... so I had all of our "significant" days within 21/2 months... I admit I was in such a fog I don't remember much of that time. My dad had passed away just 6 months before my husband so I think my emotions were already shut down... so much grief to deal with in a short time. that and dealing with chemo during the time my dad died... I think it was an emotional vaccuum for a time. Then I had to help my mom cope with losing dad and with her dementia, you can imagine how hard it was. Prayers are appreciated!
Take care,
Karol
Terri,
My husband died a year ago and my dad died a year and a half ago. Husband had one too many heart attacks (we did lose count...) and Dad developed a systemic mrsa infection and after a couple of strokes and other events was just too weak to survive it.
agave nectar sounds interesting... I like agave lemonade.... I need to get out in the country and find some local honey again too since I'm out of it. it is good for allergies...
Terri... of course we'll be praying for you to have clean scans! not much beats that... remission.... what a wonderful word. My oncologist told me that he would not use that word with me... the best I can hope for is "stable"... and truthfully, stable is good. as new treatments are developed I hope to one day hear the word remission but until then I hope it for all those who are on this lymphoma journey with me. so many kinds... I have wondered why I had to get such a rare one, then I realize that it is so that it can be treated and since I am a research case, I pray something good comes out of it.
Take care,
Karol
Kgirl.... no way would I drink the stuff without adding something to it! it is so overpowering... lime juice and ginger help a lot... I know you aren't looking forward to the holidays this year... it's hard to celebrate when you are grieving.... one day at a time... one day at a time... it will be past soon...
Take care,
Karol
Karol
Ihad tears in my eyes this morning as I read you email. I know how painful it is to go through what you must. I remember thinking the horrible pain would never end and how I would get through each day without him. Grief is good you need to let out all your feelings and talk about it with people who love you. It will be twenty years on Feb. 22 that my husband died but I still miss and love him so much. He was a wonderful husband and I have lots of good memories. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this illness so soon after your husbands death I pray that God will comfort you through these hard times. Someday the intense pain will go away and you will survive. Gof bless you Terri
Terri,
I am richly blessed. I have family and friends who love and care for me, a roof over my head, a job to go to, all of which many people do not have. I have found that God takes care to send the right people into my life when I need them. I have also learned that the seemingly hard times that I have gone through have also allowed me to be able to help someone else who had a similar struggle. everything happens for a reason, and while I do not like the struggles I have come to know that somewhere down the line I will understand why it was. It is one of the things that helps me through.
Take care,
Karol
as if we don't have enough challenges to face each day I have started having nose bleeds again... a couple of times a day for the past couple of days... no rhyme or reason, just have blood start running from my nose. nothing new that I can blame them on either....bummer
Terri,
not sure what causes the nose bleeds. Have had them off and on all of my life. I remember my Mom freaking out because I had one once when we went shopping. They just happen from time to time and a re just bothersome when they come in clusters. the doc told Mom that the capillaries in my nose were just prone to bursting. I think that a different doctor may have done some tests but he was a good country doctor and calmed mothers nerves..... I just forget about them most of the time ... I should talk to my doctor about them when I see him next....
Hideeho Karol!!!! Just poppin' in to say Kowboy has nosebleeds every year once the onset of cold weather arrives. It never fails and drives him to distraction!!!
Don't know if this is some kind of weird cold weather thing that happens to some folks, only know it sure smacks him around. Hope your dilema is short lived
and you have lots and lots of kleenex!!!!
Woozies
Kgirl
Hey Barb,
Thanks... I guess I'm not the only one who gets them. as far as I can tell they are not weather or season related.
I am so excited to be able to share good news with you all!!! I went on Monday for my quarterly bloodwork and got wonderful news! not only were my counts good and no swollen nodes but I graduated to only having to go to the doctor every six months now!!!! I am thrilled! oh yes and I lost 11 pounds since my last visit, although I must admit most of that has come off in the last month... much less stress in my life these days! Come January I will start posting images and information for our virtual cruise so we can all have an escape from reality for a few minutes at least... remember we will be "going" to the Bahamas, Mexico, Belize, Honduras, the Panama Canal, the Galapagos Islands, Hawaii and finishing off in Alaska.... Happy New Year and improved health to all in the coming year!!
Take care,
Karol
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEHHHHHAAAAAAWWWWWWW!!!!!
Doing virtual handsrings and backflips for you sweetie!!! What absolutely marvelous news and I couldn't be happier!! Maybe this will be a good omen for all of us in 2010. Time to break out the champagne for sure now. lol And can't wait for the 'cruise' - some R&R, warm sun, sea air.... can we make it one of those more 'casual cruises' where we don't have to worry about anything more formal to wear than shorts and sandals?? lol
Hugs to ya!
Sharon