Hey, I so understand what you are saying.  My husband of 37 yr was dx'd June '05 2005.  He spent the 1st 47 days in the protective environment.  After having never been alone, adapting was extremely difficult.  Remain strong.  YOU are his biggest cheerleader.  My faith in Jesus Christ sustained me then as it does now.  It's been a long time since I've been to this LLS site and I feel the pain and cover you  in prayer. 

Going through it all too! I really know what you are talking about. You must, for your own mental and physical health, seek out the help of the hospital social workers. They are therapists, and they are there for you. They can help your husband understand that you can not possibly be there all the time. You have many other things that need doing. They can help you sort through the feelings that are making your life impossible, and make it so much better. I'm so glad I finally did it.

They are there for you too, and the rest of your family if they need it. Don't wait, see them ASAP. It will benefit both you and your husband.

Best of luck and prayers for recovery, both of you!